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The State of Equality for the LGBTQ+ Community in the Quad Cities
Season 15 Episode 14 | 28mVideo has Closed Captions
The State of Equality for the LGBTQ+ Community in the Quad Cities
Jim talks with Reverend Rich Hendricks from the Metropolitan Community Church and Tyler Mitchell from the Project of the Quad Cities about the new administration and how policies are impacting people from the LQBTQ+ community.
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The State of Equality for the LGBTQ+ Community in the Quad Cities
Season 15 Episode 14 | 28mVideo has Closed Captions
Jim talks with Reverend Rich Hendricks from the Metropolitan Community Church and Tyler Mitchell from the Project of the Quad Cities about the new administration and how policies are impacting people from the LQBTQ+ community.
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The president says there are two genders, and lawmakers take books out of some Iowa libraries.
We look at the state of equality for the LGBTQ community in the cities.
Since Donald Trump reclaimed the presidency, he has put into effect several executive orders.
He promised his supporters on the campaign trail.
He's focused some of his first days in office, turning back diversity, equity and inclusion programs known as Dei.
He has banned transgender troops in the military, removed what the administration calls gender ideology from government websites, and is defunding gender affirming medical care for transgender youth.
We're joined by the Reverend Rich Hendricks, pastor with Metropolitan Community Church, and Tyler Mitchell with the project of the Quad Cities, which counsels LGBTQ youth, adults and families.
What have you been hearing?
Let's start with you, Reverend Edwards.
What have you been hearing in the community in regards to the executive orders or even the inaugural address, where he says there's two genders?
When you heard that, one of that.
Two for you.
Well, first of all, it's a myth that there are two genders, and gender is a wonderful spectrum, just like the rest of the world.
The world is not black and white, and the world is not male nor female.
There is a wonderful spectrum.
And so I want to make sure and get that in there.
But as far as you know, hearing the craziness that's going on, I feel like we have a person who has, seized power from the federal government and is acting as a bully and a dictator, and I think he needs to be called out for it.
Is there a certain level of fear that you've heard and and out of curiosity, do you hear a different message from young people as opposed to to older people in the LGBTQ community?
I mean, are the young people angry because they were so used to seeing, their rights improve over the years?
I just wonder if there's a difference that you're noticing as far as generations.
I'm seeing a lot of fear and anger, regardless of age and, and and somewhat despair more from the older folks just because they felt, you know, we fought these fights.
We've been through this before.
We didn't think we would have to do this again.
And so they've got to kind of retool and reimagine and get back in the in the game.
Tyler, you're nodding your head to that as well.
I mean, what have you heard from from clients and from people that go to the project?
For sure.
I think Rich's point of, you know, regardless of age, people are just feeling very, fearful and concerned in this particular moment.
You know, and I think it's just it's all across the larger LGBTQ plus community.
This feels unprecedented in, so many different ways.
And so I think, again, we're still trying to get our bearings so that we can kind of appropriately respond and, you know, focus internally, I think, on supporting each other as a community, which is so important right now.
And tell me how that's how you got to pivot right now.
Sure.
Everyone is pivoting right now.
Yeah.
So so how are you pivoting right now, I guess?
Yeah.
I think, you know, information is so important right now, right?
Trying to stay updated on on what's going on.
Sometimes it's, precarious balance, of course, between, so what's your mental health?
Right.
And being informed.
But, for me, for example, I feel the need to be informed right now so that I can go to work each day and help my organization best respond to, different changes in public policy.
And, frankly, the information that we have in the moment, it's the best that we can do well, right now.
I mean, the two areas that are really being focused on is, is Dei, the diversity, equity and inclusion programs.
And the second is transgender, particularly transgender youth.
And and, Reverend, I mean, you know, Iowa has already, done regulations in regards to, transgender it.
Are there that many transgender people in the Quad Cities and and, I mean, is this a major issue?
It is not an it's never been an issue or a problem.
And the number of transgender persons is quite small, which makes them a relatively easy target.
And I wanted to say something about the DTI diversity, equity and inclusion.
Is everyone.
But people don't realize how much it also impacts the disabled, the differently abled community.
So there's going to be a lot of nasty effects that come from taking away protections, and, and helping people understand diversity, education and inclusion.
There's, there's people are going to argue that the Dei policies just went too far or the, the, the, aid for transgender youth, particularly in schools, just went too far for parents.
Is that what you see?
Because, I mean, politically, there's pendulums that occur.
You know, we, our society, America becomes very liberal and very conservative.
It's it's I think there's there's truth and facts and that is human beings are worthy of respect and dignity and and that doesn't depend on a pendulum.
And I think our schools and teachers were really, beginning to understand that everywhere.
I mean, not everywhere, but most places.
And now, you know, they transgender persons in particular, you know, fear for, their safety even in their schools where they ought to be protected.
But those protections are being removed.
And so it leaves them very vulnerable.
It's it takes a brave person to be transgender, to talk about the vulnerability.
I mean, people may not really realize and I think a lot of people do though.
Yeah.
I think, just in general, we know that our trans folks are more likely to experience homelessness, for example.
Right.
Often the result of families who might not be accepting of, of their gender identity.
And just think about that when one is removed from their home, all sorts of other things suddenly become irrelevant, right?
Whether it's, taking one's medications or, eating a healthy meal.
Right.
There are so many things that suddenly, become different priorities of just surviving.
That it's very difficult to maintain your, your mental health in those, circumstances.
And so that's why we're so focused, at least on the, at the project, right on through our behavioral health services or through our support groups and, helping folks understand what, you know, gender identity is and how, family members can have conversations with one another to, to be supportive.
Again, I think now more than ever, we talk about community supporting one another.
You know, in family situations in which it's safe.
We we need that familial support as well.
Tell me about that counseling that is offered for sure.
Because you're not only you're not only dealing with the person who is going through, a persecution or discrimination.
You've also got the family that has to better understand the person.
Yeah.
And, you know, specifically with the types of services that we provide in with, families.
Most often when someone is in the family that's LGBTQ, right?
The first step is just a willingness to be able to show up and, and kind of sit in the space and, and listen.
Right.
It seems pretty fundamental that the ability to listen to one another, you know, is so important, but it truly is.
Right.
And so, we have very intentional conversations with our clients around, how, you know, they can reduce their own anxiety, whether that's through, mindfulness or harm reduction.
Right.
We want folks to be able to, feel and live as their best selves.
And I think that that increases our ability to connect with each other, too.
That sounds good.
Yeah, but sounds so difficult to do.
Yeah.
Of course.
I mean, you know, behavioral health work or mental health work.
Improving oneself is typically not easy work, right?
It requires you to be vulnerable and to be willing to discuss things that you might be uncomfortable with.
But we also see.
Right, particularly in conversations around LGBTQ topics and even more so around folks who are transgender.
There's so much misconception and misunderstanding amongst folks, and if we were better about having conversations, and maybe also taking a moment to do just a bit of our own research, I think we could be, much more kind and intentional on how we're communicating with each other.
And that's what the church where the church comes in as well.
I mean, that's the resource that you try to provide.
Some people have left the church.
Some people feel that the church has left them.
That's really your role as well.
Is that not correct?
Helping people to understand the world, from the perspective of love.
Because that's what's key.
You know, I often tell people, you know, from my perspective, it's love, God.
You know, however you conceive your your God to be love God, love one another and and everything else is window dressing.
We are, with one human family organizing, peaceful, nonviolent, resistance and civil disobedience training.
And I think that's going to be very important because, I think we're called upon to, to not cooperate with evil.
And what we have in power right now is, is an evil system that that seeks to target, the most vulnerable persons in our society and our love, my, faith calls me to reach out and try to help and protect those who are on the margins.
And we can do that individually and personally through wonderful organizations like the project.
But we can also do that by resisting, oppressive regimes like the one that we're currently under.
You use strong language like evil and regime, but but these are people that got a mandate of votes.
They got the majority votes in America.
Or as far as I was concerned, it's a very Republican where it was usually if we're doing the colors, it's now more of a red state than it was a purple state.
Don't you think the people have spoken, though?
No, I we did not vote in a person to take over the federal government.
And and re imagine the Constitution.
This is a dictator who has openly and willingly put forth anti-constitutional.
I mean, blatantly unconstitutional efforts.
You know, his his attempt to silence, free speech and free thought amongst federal employees is is very scary in the ways that that non-elected people like Elon Musk have seized control of the government.
That's a scary, scary thing.
And when you get somebody, you know, I have a friend who works for the Social Security Administration was talking about the memos that that that they received about the DEA stuff, for example.
You know, part of that memo says, and you are required to report your coworkers if you suspect that they have eye material displayed.
Wow.
This is the United States of America.
That's that's not what we voted for.
And it's dangerous.
Well, let's talk a little bit more about the project.
And when you get federal money.
So you got to be very careful what you're saying, I understand that.
Sure.
But tell me about your clientele since the inauguration or since the election, is there that fear?
I mean, what are you hearing from people?
Yeah, I think that there is, definitely a fear across many communities.
You know, we've talked a lot about the LGBTQ plus community and the trans community.
But to this point, you know, he mentioned people who are in the disabled community, right.
This is more than a LGBTQ issue or a transgender issue, right?
The project we have been in this work since 1986.
We started serving people who were being, impacted by, the HIV virus at the time, people literally losing their lives.
And so the folks that come through our doors, there are people living with HIV.
They're trans people are LGBTQ people.
But it's not all who we serve.
And we're hearing from, again, multiple communities, just a sense of fear.
I think the just the unknown of what could happen is still very much top of mind for a lot of people.
And I think to as the administration again, focuses particularly on DNI efforts, you know, I think to Rich's point, it's perhaps not what voters were looking for, right?
They're looking for lowering costs and a variety of other issues that are, unrelated to the types of trainings that offices are holding.
And when we talk about fear, is it more of a fear that that people are worried that they're going to lose some of their rights or, is it a fear of actually physical fear?
I think it's a combination of things, Jim.
And I think it greatly depends upon where you find yourself in life.
Right.
I think if again, I use an example of a trans youth, right.
If you're a trans youth and your parents have kicked you out of your home and you're couch surfing or trying to find ways to find shelter.
I think the the threat that you're facing is far different than, you know, I'll use myself as an example.
I'm a cisgender, gay white dude.
Right.
Where, I think the risk level is different for me.
I'm not saying it is nonexistent, but, different parts of our community are going to be impacted in different ways and in different levels of severity.
Let's talk about some of the rights that that already exist.
I think of marriage first off.
And let's be honest, Iowa was a trailblazer.
As far as, same sex marriage.
And now there's talk about reverting back, and, and and changing that.
You've been part when you could claim victory.
And now you're seeing some of those victories ebbing away.
I mean, it's had a big concern in Iowa.
It is a huge concern not just in Iowa, but nationally.
Our, dictator's attack on rights includes all LGBTQ persons.
He has rolled back rights for the gay community.
And I have no doubt that their goal, they've said as much.
Their goal includes reversing marriage equality.
And they're going to do that every bit as much as they manage to get, women's reproductive rights reversed.
So yeah, it is it is a major problem.
And I think it's, calls for people to, to stand up in this in this time.
One of the things one human family is doing is we're organizing a pro-democracy, rally, and we're looking at that, for Thursday, the 27th of February.
And the place is yet to be decided.
But I you know, there's lots of opportunities, ways for people to not cooperate with with evil.
And and I'm sorry.
I just think it is it is evil.
Everything that they are doing, is done the way a bully would do it.
You know, if you really believe in these values that the Trump administration claims to promote, why not implement them the right way?
In other words, they have a majority in Congress.
But he's he is running them instead of working with them.
That's not the way our constitutional democracy was set up to operate.
You have these protest plans, but do they really work?
I mean, does it really?
Are you not just preaching to the converted?
It's important that people understand they still have a voice.
And I believe every voice matters.
You know, the same type of questions were put to Doctor Martin Luther King back in the 60s when they, when it looked hopeless for them to do such things as a sit ins or protest rally.
So, yeah, I think there's a lot of sentiment out there, where people are looking for an outlet to help express their frustration and rage, and it's only going to get worse because with the tariffs up, people are no longer going to be able to afford some of the basics.
So I think I hope that the tide will turn because of, because of the overreach of this administration.
I really want to make sure that I touch also upon LGBTQ health, for sure.
And and Aids and the HIV epidemic.
You and I lived through that period of time.
We know how devastating it was.
And we also know that there's a whole new generation that doesn't necessarily remember those days.
Explain to me right now, the fight against HIV.
Making sure your health is good and just not looking the other way.
Of course.
Yeah.
We have made astounding progress in our fight against the HIV virus.
There was a time, in fact, that in this country, HIV was the number one cause of death for young Americans.
And, to your point, Jim, there are a lot of people who are around today and participating in our society that, weren't around, in, in those days.
And so, it is a reminder of the amazing progress that a community can make when it comes together to organize and fight against, systems that are holding it back.
Right.
If it weren't for HIV advocacy from the people who were impacted by the virus, we would not have the medical treatments that we have today that allow a person living with the virus to live a long and fulfilling life, just like all of us at this table.
Right?
That is in in an incredible achievement of of science.
And we still have people who are getting the virus today, right?
HIV transmissions have not gone away.
Again, the progress that we have made, particularly because of interventions like Prep and also, prevention work out in the community, are truly astounding.
And we need to really take note of that progress, because when we're having conversations, particularly at the federal level, about budgets and where things are being cut and what programs to keep.
Right.
These programs have been essential to that progress and deserve that continued support, because HIV, it used to be a death sentence of course.
Yep.
You know, and what are you telling people now since it's not a death sentence?
I think some people don't necessarily take it as seriously as sir.
Yeah, I can understand that.
And I think, what I would say is, of course, because of medical advancements, it's not a death sentence.
People living with the virus are still predisposed to a number of different, health inequities or gaps, right?
More likely, again, to experience homelessness or even, substance abuse.
Right.
There are a variety of different sort of, gaps or openings that organizations like the project, help to fill.
So that, again, if a person, is not experiencing homelessness, then they're far more focused on taking their medication every day and staying healthy.
Right.
Marginalized people also often internal, that they hide from a problem as opposed to seeking help.
Yeah.
And I'm sure that you want to point out there's always help out there.
People may maybe desperate.
How how do they contact you?
I mean, how do they progress into a better life?
Sure.
And and that's a really good point, Jim, in the sense of, there are a lot of people who are, frankly, just afraid to come in our doors, right?
Because of what that action or that acknowledgment means.
And so that's why it's so important that we have the ability to be able to go to people out in the community and provide those services and support.
Right.
But we want, folks who might be impacted by HIV, LGBTQ people, folks across our community who need access to sexual health services, behavioral health and support to know that our doors are still open.
We've been here since 1986, and we have no intention of going anywhere.
Counseling so important.
Reaching out is so important.
You're not alone.
It is.
Exactly.
And we hope that those services will continue to be funded because that's that's the issue right now, is they're stopping funding for all of the things that that are so important that that Tyler mentioned and and counseling and one and one and talking out and reaching out and knowing that you're not alone is so crucial.
I mean, you've lived a good long life like I have.
You have seen so many different waves of of the way people react.
What's your optimism right now?
I guess my optimism is, is human beings are incredibly, adaptive.
And so I, you know, encourage people to, to adapt, to continue to change and grow and seek community because that's where we find home is in communities, in connecting, you know, with with me of my faith.
It's connecting with God, but it's also connecting with one another and with creation.
And when we do that and we can do that regardless of what oppressive regime we may be under, we become stronger together and we become stronger personally.
Our thanks to the Reverend Rick Hendricks, pastor with Metropolitan Community Church, and Tyler Mitchell with the project of the Quad Cities.
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Check out the things to do this week in the Quad Cities.
Start off with Tuesday Trivia night at Bally's Quad Cities on February 25th.
Then you can watch a free film at the Fiji Art Museum on February 27th.
Then try picking your own project at Borden Brush Quad Cities on February 28th.
Next, check out wine at the Warehouse at Dimitri Wine and Spirits on March 1st.
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